Chronic joy - what the f? Chronic anything?

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   I don’t want to alarm anyone, this isn’t a call for peak positivity or toxic positivity. You can breathe a huge sigh of relief. I’m not suggesting we should also go about pretending everything is fine with a painted fake smile on our face. Sometimes things are hard and we should call it what it is. Life is lifing.     

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